If she is a nice person and what she said and did is well-intentioned, even her expressing way is not appropriate, I can accept her. I will also give her good suggestions in a appropriate way.

如果他是个很好的人，言行都出自善意，只是表达方式上有些不得体，我觉得我 可以接受，并且会在适当的时间委婉的提出我对他的看法，希望能对他有所帮助。