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Listening is one of the first things we learn to do and one of the things we do most. The average person spends
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of their daily communication time writing, 16 percent reading, 30 percent speaking, and a whopping
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. Students spend most of their school time listening up to 60 percent, according to some studies. Yet
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, we usually take our ability to listen for granted. As we have already said, though,
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.
The fact is, we have different listening styles
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. How successful we are as listeners may depend in part on
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for the situation.
Perhaps the most basic listening style is
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. We listen appreciatively when we enjoy music, a bird"s song, or the murmur of a brook. We
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, one called discriminative listening, when we want to
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from a noisy environment. You discriminate, for example, when you listen for a friend"s voice
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. We use a third style of listening, comprehensive listening, when we want to understand. When we listen to
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, we are using this style.
The fourth learning style is more complex.
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, the style practiced by counselors, psychiatrists, and good friends, encourages people to
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. Friends act as our sounding boards when we just want someone to listen. The therapeutic listener
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accepts what is said, tries hard to understand, and above all,
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.
The fifth style,
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, is the one we will examine most closely. Critical listeners are the most active of all listeners because they are working hard to decide whether
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makes sense. Critical listeners evaluate what they hear and decide if
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is logical, worthwhile or has value. We need to be critical listeners when someone wants us to buy some things,
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, or support a particular idea. We also need to be critical listeners in school, where
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.