Passage Three: Questions are based on the following passage.
Psychologists agree that I.Q. contributes only about 20 percent of the factors that determine success. A full 80 percent comes from other factors, including what I call emotional intelligence. Following are two of the major qualities that make up emotional intelligence, and how they can be developed.
1. Self-awareness. The ability to recognize a feeling as it happen is the keystone of emotional intelligence. People with greater certainty about their emotions are better pilot of their lives.
Developing self-awareness requires tuning in to what neurologist Antonio Damasio calls “gut feeling”. Gut feelings can occur without a person being consciously aware of them. For example, when people who fear snakes are shown a picture of a snake, sensors on their skins will detect sweat, a sigh of anxiety; even though they say they do not feel fear. The sweat shows up even when a picture is presented so rapidly that the subject has no conscious awareness of seeing it.
Through deliberate effort we can become more aware of our gut feelings. Take someone who is annoyed by a rude encounter for hours after it occurred. He may be unaware of his irritability and surprised when someone calls attention to it. But if he evaluates his feelings, he can change them.
Emotional self-awareness is the building block of the next fundamental of emotional intelligence: being able to shake off a bad mood.
2. Mood Management. Bad as well as good moods spice life and build character. The key is balance.
We often have little control over when we are swept by emotion. But we can have some say in how long that emotion will last. Psychologist Dianne Tice asked more than 400 men and women about their strategies for escaping foul moods. Her research, along with that of other psychologists, provides valuable information on how to change a bad mood.
Of all the moods that people want to escape, rage seems to be the hardest to deal with. When someone in another car cuts you off on the highway, your reflexive thought may be: That jerk! He could have hit me! I can’t let him get away with that! The more you stew, the angrier you get. Such is the stuff of hypertension and reckless driving.
What should you do to relieve rage? One myth is that ventilating will make you feel better. In fact, researchers have found that’s one of the worst strategies. A more effective technique is “reframing”, which means consciously reinterpreting a situation in a more positive light. In the case of the driver who cuts you off, you might tell yourself: Maybe he bad some emergency. This is one of the most potent ways, Tice found, to put anger to rest.
Going off alone to cool down is also an effective way to refuse anger, especially if you can’t think clearly. Tice found that a large proportion of men cool down by going for a drive—a finding that inspired her to drive more defensively. A safer alternative is exercise, such as taking a walk. Whatever you do, don’t waste the time pursuing your train of anger thoughts. Your aim should be to distract yourself.
The techniques of reframing and distraction can alleviate depression and anxiety as well as anger. Add to them such relaxation techniques as deep breathing and meditation and you have an arsenal of weapons against bad moods.
What are gut feeling?
第三段中提到, occur without a person being consciously aware of them, 因此, 它指的是我们可能意识不到的一种情绪, 故选B。
According to the author, the importance of knowing one’s gut feeling is that ________.
第四段的“he can change them”和第五段的“being able to shake off a bad mood”表明, 了解gut feeling的重要性在于我们可以摆脱这些不良的情绪。
The word “spice” (Pare.6) is closet in meaning to ________.
第六段主要讲了, 坏情绪跟好情绪一样都可以为生活增添乐趣, 关键是两者要平衡。 这里的spice是“为……增加趣味”的意思。
On mood control, the author seems to suggest that we ________.
第七段第二句, 提到“we can have some say in how long that emotion will last”。 C选项中的determine和duration分别对应原文的have some say和how long, 故选C项。
The essence of “reframing” is ________.
倒数第三段中提到, 要有意识地用更积极的方式重新解释一种情况(consciously reinterpreting a situation in a more positive light) , 因此, 重新构建的核心在于采取一种积极的态度, 故选B项。