问答题 Shy people, having low self-respect, are likely to be passive and easily influenced by others. They need reassurance that they are doing "the right thing". Shy people are very sensitive to criticism. They feel it confirms their inferiority. They also find it difficult to be pleased by praise because they believe they are unworthy of praise. It is clear that, while self-awareness is a healthy quality, over-doing it is harmful. Can shyness be completely eliminated, or at least reduced? Fortunately, people can overcome shyness with determined and patient effort in building self-confidence. Since shyness goes hand in hand with lack of self-esteem, it is important for people to accept their weaknesses as well as their strengths. Each one of us is a unique, worthwhile individual. We are interesting in our own personal ways. The better we understand ourselves, the easier it becomes to live up to our fuI1 potential. Let's not allow shyness to block our chances for a rich and fulfilling life.
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【答案解析】羞怯的人非常自卑,他们可能很被动,容易受他人的影响。他们需要得到他人的宽慰:他们所做的是“正确的事情”。羞怯的人对批评很敏感,他们认为批评使得他们低人一等。他们也发现自己很难因为受到表扬而高兴,因为他们相信自己不值得表扬。很明显,尽管具有自知之明是件好事,但过度自谦则是有害的。 羞怯能根除吗?或至少能减少些吗?幸运的是,许多人能通过坚决而有耐心地建立自信来克服羞怯。既然羞怯与自卑天生相伴,那么人们能看见他们的优缺点是很重要的。我们每个人都是独一无二的、有价值的个体,自有吸引人之处。我们了解自己越多,我们就越容易充分发挥自己的潜能。不要让羞怯妨碍我们实现富裕而充实的人生。