单选题 Being a good parent is harder now than it has ever been before. In pressurised modern lives, demands to be a fulfilled individual, and a good partner and a good worker, take no account of being a good parent. We haven't left space for the nurturing parents expect to provide and children need. As a result, many parents in the western world just don't work.
Something will have to change. With luck, people in the future will only have children if they really want them And that should mean that parenthood is seen as a much more positive commitment than it is now, and that parents are socially supported, and admired for doing a good job.
The problem is that in the last generation or so we've come to assume that women should be able, and should want, to do everything that by tradition men have done at the same time as pretty well as everything that by tradition women have done. And it's just not possible. Indeed since adopting a male agenda in life is arguably only another form of submission (男尊女卑), quite a number of highly educated and economically privileged women are now choosing to take career breaks so as to be at home with their children for longer than that insulting 18 weeks*.
The most welcome trend in parenting is that men are participating more and more. Even that is not free of conflict, though. Intellectually, women want men to be equal parents and do their share. But there's often a contradictory emotional sub-text because children are the last bastion (堡垒) of distaff power (女性的权利) in the family. "I want him to help me but this is my territory and being better at it is one of the few things I've got as a female. "
Having children—especially the first child—puts a bigger strain on a couple's relationship than anything else they ever do. So a future of smaller families and more people choosing not to have children at all could well leave couples closer than they are today; for many, the purpose of being together would be solely to pleasure and support each other-an interesting prospect.
*在英国,妇女的法定产假是18周。

单选题 Many parents in the West just don't work because ______.
A. they're tired of their work
B. they have too many pressures at work
C. they want to spend more time with their children
D. they want to relax and enjoy the life
【正确答案】 C
【答案解析】[解析] 细节题。文章第一段讲,由于人们承受许多压力,同时扮演着很多角色,所以许多父母没有时间来尽父母之责,不能为孩子提供他们所需的照顾。因此,许多父母选择不工作了。当然,其目的就是为了给孩子更多的时间。所以选C。
单选题 It is assumed by the last generation or so that ______.
A. women should stay home while men go out to work
B. women should go out to have their own careers
C. women should be able and willing to do the housework and hold a job at the same time
D. women and men should equally share the housework and have equal opportunities at work
【正确答案】 C
【答案解析】[解析] 细节题。根据第三段,上一代的人们总是设想,女人不仅要能够且愿意做好女人传统的角色,而且要能够并愿意做好男人传统的角色,亦即女人不仅要做好家务,而且有与男人一样拥有一份工作。所以C是正确的。
单选题 Many women are now choosing to take career breaks because ______.
A. they find it difficult to get a higher position above men
B. they don't want to assume both a male role and a female role
C. they think they are prejudiced against by men at work
D. they are not educated highly enough
【正确答案】 B
【答案解析】[解析] 细节题。在第三段中,参考上一题,女人同时承担女人和男人两种角色的重担,不仅是不可能的,而且也是另外一种形式的男尊女卑,所以许多女人选择暂时放弃工作。故B是正确答案。
单选题 Why is there still a conflict after men participate more and more in parenting?
A. Because there are more quarrels between women and men about how to educate children.
B. Because women don't want men to be equal parents and do their share.
C. Because women worry men will not concentrate on their job.
D. Because women worry their female role in family may be intervened and diminish.
【正确答案】 D
【答案解析】[解析] 细节题。第四段讲,男人越来越多参与照顾孩子,但即使这样仍存在矛盾。女人虽然希望男人与她们平等分担家务,但是她们又存在一种感情上的矛盾,她们认为孩子是女人最后的堡垒,家庭是女人的天地,因此她们担心男人进来后会使她们作为女人最擅长的最后几件事也会被男人侵占。因此,D与此意思相符。
单选题 Which is true about the future trend?
A. More parents will choose to stay at home to take care of their children.
B. Families with several children will emerge stronger and richer.
C. More people will choose not to get married.
D. More couples will choose not to have children.
【正确答案】 D
【答案解析】[解析] 是非题。根据文章最后一段,将来家庭将变小,更多的人将选择不要小孩。所以,只有D与此符合。