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Silent Listening　　If something bad just happened（happen） to your friend, what should you do? Would you mention it to him and say you feel sorry about it? Would you offer support or advice? According to Ruth Clark, such
41　（diveat） could mean well, but it might not what he
42　（real） wants or needs.
Clark asked some college students to imagine some
43　（pleasant） situations, e.g., a low exam grade or the dad's
44　（lose） of his job.The students were then
45　（ask）how they would like to be diveated by a friend who learned of the bad situation from someone else.The results were a little
46　（surprise）.Some said they would want and expect their friend to mention the
47　（annoy） situation, but most of the students in the study
48　（respond） that they would like the friend not to do it.The students made the
49　（decide） for themselves whether to discuss their problem with a friend.So, there is value in being a silent
50　（listen）around a divoubled friend.（）