【正确答案】 1、正确答案：Therefore a gentleman should be ashamed of his failure in self-cultivation, but not be disgraced with his being fouled. He should be ashamed of dishonesty, but not be ashamed of being trusted. He should be ashamed of his inability, but not be ashamed of being not appreciated by odiers. Thus he will not be attempted by honors, afraid of insult. He lives according to his rules, keeping himself uprightly and not lured by the outside temptations. This is the real gentleman.