【正确答案】正确答案： We should not be too romantic in interpersonal relations. Human beings are funny in that they tend to notice, at the first glance, the merits of a new acquaintance. It is just like the experience of dining in a restaurant. You will be not only favorably impressed with the first dish or cold dishes, but also speak highly of the first two courses. However, the more you have, the more sober you become until the dinner ends up with all the shortcomings exposed. Thus, happiness turns into anger, praise into scolding and nitpicking, and heading nodding into headshaking. What accounts for all this is, in the first place, that you are hungry when you start to eat. As the saying goes, "Hungry is the best sauce", and vice versa. And in the second place, unfamiliarity, rather than familiarity, breeds freshness in you when you start to eat in a restaurant new to you, which is called the effect of defamiliarization.