单选题 It is natural for young people to he critical of their parents at times and to blame them for most of the misunderstandings between them. They have always complained, more or 21 justly, that their parents are out of touch 22 modem ways; that they are possessive and dominant; 23 they do not trust their children to deal with crises; that they 24 too much about certain problems—and that they have no 25 of humor, at least in parent-child relationships.
I think it is true that parents often 26 their teenage children and also forget how they themselves felt 27 young.
young people often irritate their parents with their 28 if clothes and hairstyles, in entertainers and music. This is not their 29 . They feel cut off from the adult world into which they have not 30 been accepted. So they create a culture and society of their own. 31 , if it turns out that their music or entertainers or vocabulary or clothes or hairstyles 32 their parents, this gives them additional enjoyment. They feel they are 33 , at least in a small way, and that they are leaders in style and 34 . Sometimes you are resistant, and proud because you do not want your parents to 35 of what you do. If they did approve, it looks as if you are 36 your own age group. But in that case, you are 37 that you are the underdog (失败者): you can"t win but at least you can keep your honor. This is a 38 way of looking at things. It is natural enough after long years of childhood, 39 you were completely under your parents" control. But it 40 the fact that you are now beginning to be responsible for yourself. So if you plan to control your life, cooperation can be part of that plan.