填空题 Self-esteem is the combination of 1 —the conviction that you 2 cope with life"s challenges and are worthy of happiness. Self-esteem is the way you talk to yourself about yourself. Self-esteem has two interrelated aspects; it entails a sense of 3 and a sense of personal worth. It is the 4 self-confidence and self-respect. It is the conviction that one is competent to live and 5
Our self-esteem and self-image are developed by 6 All of us have conscious and unconscious memories of all the times 7 —they are part of the 8 of childhood. This is where the critical voice gets started. Everyone has a 9 . People with low self-esteem simply have a more vicious and demeaning inner voice.
Psychologists say that almost every aspect of our lives—our personal happiness, success, relationships with others, 10 are dependent on 11 . The more we have, the better we deal with things.
12 is important because when people experience it, they feel good and look good, they are 13 , and they respond to other people and themselves in healthy, positive, growing ways. People who have positive self-esteem know that they are 14 , and they care about themselves and other people. They do not have to 15 by tearing other people down or 16 competent people.
Our background largely determines what we will become in personality and more importantly in self-esteem. Where do 17 come from? Many come from our families, since more than 80% of our waking hours up to the age of eighteen are spent 18 . We are who we are because of where we"ve been. We build Our own brands of self-esteem 19 : fate, the positive things life offers, the negative things life offers and our own decisions about 20 , the positives and the negatives.