问答题 Get to know your authentic self. Discover the real you. Don"t blindly accept the role you were conditioned by others to fill. You have your own path to follow. Be your own independent person. Don"t allow peer pressure to force you into an inauthentic role.
Being a man or woman isn"t about blindly following popular gender patterns, nor is it about rejecting such patterns out of hand and rebelliously embracing their opposites. Ultimately you must define what kind of man or woman you will become. This is a choice you must make for yourself as an individual, regardless of what anyone else thinks. What kind of man / woman do you wish to be? Life awaits your answer...