填空题Directions:In this section, you are going to read a
passage with ten statements attached to it. Each statement contains information
given in one of the paragraphs. Identify the paragraph from which the
information is derived. You may choose a paragraph more than once. Each
paragraph is marked with a letter. Answer the questions by marking the
corresponding letter on Answer Sheet 2.
Helicopter Moms vs. Free-Range
Kids
[A] Would you let your fourth-grader ride
public transportation without an adult? Probably not. Still, when Lenore
Skenazy, a columnist for the New York Sun, wrote about letting her son take the
subway alone to get back to her Manhattan home from a department store on the
Upper East Side, she didn't expect to get hit with wave of criticism from
readers. [B] "Long story short: My son got home, overjoyed with
independence," Skenazy wrote on April 4 in the New York Sun. "Long story longer:
Half the people I've told this episode to now want to turn me in for child
abuse. As if keeping kids under lock and key and cell phone and careful watch is
the right way to rear kids. It's not. It's debilitating (使虚弱)— for us and for
them." [C] Online message boards were soon full of people both
applauding and condemning Skenazy's decision to let her son go it alone. She
wound up defending herself on CNN (accompanied by her son) and on popular blogs
like the Huffington Post, where her follow-up piece was ironically headlined
"More From America's Worst Morn." [D] The episode has ignited
another one of those debates that divides parents into vocal opposing camps. Are
Modern parents needlessly overprotective, or is the world a more complicated and
dangerous place than it was when previous generations were allowed to wander
about unsupervised? [E] From the "she's an irresponsible
mother" camp came: "Shame on you for being so careless about his safety," in
comments on the Huffington Post. And there was this from a mother of four: "How
would you have felt if he didn't come home?" But Skenazy got a lot of support,
too, with women and men writing in with stories about how they were allowed to
take trips all by themselves at seven or eight. She also got heaps of praise for
bucking the "helicopter parent" trend: "Good for this Mom," one commenter wrote
on the Huffington Post. "This is a much-needed reality check."
[F] Last week, encouraged by all the attention, Skenazy started her own
blog—Free Range, kids—promoting the idea that modern children need some of the
same independence that her generation had. In the good old days nine-year-old
baby boomers rode their bikes to school, walked to the store, took buses—and
even subways—all by themselves. Her blog, she says, is dedicated to sensible
parenting. "At Free Range Kids, we believe in safe kids. We believe in car seats
and safety belts. We do NOT believe that every time school-age children go
outside, they need a security guard." [G] So why are some
parents so nervous about letting their children out of their sight? Are cities
and towns less safe and kids more vulnerable to crimes like child kidnap and
sexual abuse than they were in previous generations? [H] Not
exactly. New York City, for instance, is safer than it's ever been; it's ranked
36th in crime among all American cities. Nationwide, stringer kidnaps are
extremely rare; there's a one-in-a-million chance a child will be taken by a
stranger, according to the Justice Department. And 90 percent of sexual abuse
cases are committed by someone the child knows. Mortality rates from all causes,
including disease and accidents, for American children are lower now than they
were 25 years' ago. According to Child Trends, a nonprofit research group,
between 1980 and 2003 death rates dropped by 44 percent for children aged 5 to
14 and 32 percent for teens aged 15 to 19. [I] Then there's the
whole question of whether modern parents are more watchful and nervous about
safety than previous generations. Yes, some are. Part of the problem is that
with wall-to-wall Internet and cable news, every missing child case gets so much
airtime that it's not surprising even normal parental anxiety can be amplified.
And many middle-class parents have gotten used to managing their children's time
and shuttling them to various enriching activities, so the idea of letting them
out on their own can seem like a risk. Back in 1972, when many of today's
parents were kids, 87 percent of children who lived within a mile of school
walked or biked every day. But today, the Centers for Disease Control report
that only 13 percent of children bike, walk or otherwise get themselves to
school. [J] The extra supervision is both a city and a suburb
phenomenon. Parents are worried about crime, and they are worried about kids
getting caught in traffic in a city that's not used to pedestrians. On the other
hand, there are still plenty of kids whose parents give them a lot of
independence, by choice or by necessity. The After School Alliance finds that
more than 14 million kids aged 5 to 17 are responsible for taking care of
themselves after school. Only 6.5 million kids participate in organized
programs. "Many children who have working parents have to take the subway or bus
to get to school. Many do this by themselves because they have no other way to
get to the schools," says Dr. Richard Gallagher, director of the Parenting
Institute at the New York University Child Study Center. [K]
For those parents who wonder how and when they should start allowing their kids
more freedom, there's no clear-cut answer. Child experts discourage a
one-size-fits-all approach to parenting. What's right for Skenazy's
nine-year-old could be inappropriate for another one. It all depends on
developmental issue, maturity, and the psychological and emotional makeup of
that child. Several factors must be taken into account, says Gallagher. "The
ability to follow parent guidelines, the child's level of comfort in handling
such situations, and a child's general judgment should be weighed."
[L] Gallagher agrees with Skenazy that many nine-year-olds are ready for
independence like taking public transportation alone. "At certain times of the
day, on certain routes, the subways are generally safe for these children,
especially if they have grown up in the city and have been taught how to be
safe, how to obtain help if they are concerned for their safety, and how to
avoid unsafe situations by being watchful and on their toes."
[M] But even with more traffic and fewer sidewalks, modern parents do have one
advantage their parents didn't: the cell phone. Being able to check in with a
child anytime goes a long way toward relieving parental anxiety and may help
parents loosen their control a little sooner. Skenazy got a lot of criticism
because she didn't give her kid her cell phone because she thought he'd lose it
and wanted him to learn to go it alone without depending on mom—a major
principle of free-range parenting. But most parents are more than happy to use
cell phones to keep track of their kids. [N] And for those who
like the idea of free-range kids but still struggle with their inner helicopter
parent, there may be a middle way. A new generation of GPS cell phones with
tracking software make it easier than ever to follow a child's every movement
via the Internet—without seeming to interfere or hover. Of course, when they go
to college, they might start objecting to being monitored as they're on parole
(保释).
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One of the reasons that some parents today tend to be more protective is because of the intensified news coverage about crimes related to kids.
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Lenore Skenazy's son was very excited about his journey home alone but half of the people who heard about his journey would accuse his mother for child abuse.
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Many kids with working parents have to take public transportation alone to get to school.
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Lenore Skenazy advocates that young children need to be as independent as their parents were.
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Lenore Skenazy's practice of letting her young son get home alone has met both approval and disapproval online.
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Cell phones can relieve parental anxiety when they decide to leave their kids alone.
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Because of the individual differences in every kid, there is no standard answer to when parents should give their kids more freedom.
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Statistics show that kids are safer in many respects now than a generation ago.
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Parents are divided over the debate on whether parents today being overprotective or the world today being too dangerous.
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Cell phones with GPS make it easier for parents to keep an eye on their kids without intervention.