A Few Tips for Self-Acceptance
We all want it to accept and love ourselves. But at times it seems too difficult and too far out of reach. 【A1】________ Here’s a handful of ways that will set you in the right direction.
●【A2】________ Do not follow the people who make you feel not-good-enough. Why do you follow them? Are you hoping that eventually you will feel empowered because your life is better than theirs? Know that your life is your own;you are the only you in this world.
●Forgive yourself for mistakes that you have made. We are often ashamed of our shortcomings, our mistakes and our failures.【A3】________ You will make mistakes, time and time again. Rather than getting caught up in how you could have done better, why not offer yourself a compassionate (有同情心) response? "That didn’t go as planned. But, I tried my best."
●Recognize all of your strengths. Write them down in a journal. Begin to train your brain to look at strength before weakness. List all of your accomplishments and achievements. You have a job, earned your degree, and you got out of bed today. 【A4】________
●Now that you’ve listed your strengths, list your imperfections. Turn the page in your journal. Put into words why you feel unworthy, why you don’t feel good enough. Now, read these words back to yourself. 【A5】________ Turn to a page in your journal to your list of strengths and achievements. See how awesome you are?
A. Feeling upset again?
B. Where do you start?
C. Nothing is too small to celebrate.
D. Remember, you are only human.
E. Set an intention for self-acceptance.
F. Stop comparing yourself with others.
G. When does the comparison game start?
【A1】
根据题目 A Few Tips for Self-acceptance及下文的 Here's a handful of ways that will set you in the right direction.(这有很多可 以帮你找到正确方向的方法。)可知,选项 B. Where do you start? (从哪里开始那?)最合下文语境,故选 B项。
【A2】
根据下文 Are you hoping that eventually you will feel empowered because your life is better than theirs? Know that your life is your own; you are the only one in this world.(你是否希望最终你会因为自己的生活比他们的好而感到有力量?要知道,你的生活 是你自己的;你在这个世界上是独一无二的。)可知,本段主要讲述不要把自己和别人作比较,因为生活是我们自己的,我们 也是世界上独一无二的。故 F. Stop comparing yourself with others.(停止把自己和别人进行比较。)可以作为本段中心句,故选 F 项。
【A3】
根据本文的中心句 Forgive yourself for mistakes that you have made. (原谅自己所犯的错误。 )及下文的 You will make mistakes, time and time again. (你会一次又一次地犯错误。)可知,选项 D. Remember, you are only human.(记住,你只是个人。)与上下文 衔接最好,故选 D项。
【A4】
根据上文 List all of your accomplishments and achievements. You have a job, earned your degree, and you got out of bed today.(列出你所有的成就。你有了一份工作,拿到了学位,今天就起床了。)可知,选项 C. Nothing is too small to celebrate.(没有什么事是太小而不值得庆祝。)与上文衔接最好,故选 C项。
【A5】
结合上文 Put into words why you feel unworthy, why you don't feel good enough. Now, read these words back to yourself.(用语 言来解释为什么你觉得自己不值得,为什么你觉得自己不够好。现在,自己读一下这些话。)和下文的 Turn to a page in your journal to your list of strengths and achievements. See how awesome you are? (翻到你日记本上记下你的有点和成就的那页。看到你有多棒了吗?)可知,选项 A. Feeling upset again?(再次感觉心烦意乱了吗?)最合上下文语境,故选 A项。