问答题

其实何止是朋友,夫妻之间、父子之间,难道就没有顾忌吗?每一个成年人都有他生命中的光荣与隐痛,真正的好朋友不要轻易去触及他的隐痛,这就需要你有眼色。当然这跟投其所好不同,这是你给朋友营造的一个宽和与友好的气氛,让他跟你沟通下去。

在世界采访史上,有一个著名的案例。

费雯丽在美国好莱坞拍的影片《乱世佳人》获得了十一项奥斯卡提名之后,使她一举成名。当这个电影风光无限,首次去欧洲巡演的时候,费雯丽乘班机降落在伦敦停机坪上。成千上万的记者在下面围着。

有一个没有眼色的记者冲在了最前面,他非常热情地问刚刚走出旋梯的费雯丽说,请问你在这个电影里扮演什么角色?这一句话使费雯丽转身就进了机舱,再也不肯出来。

【正确答案】

Isn’ t there any scruple between wives and husbands, fathers and sons except among friends? Every adult has both glory and grief in his life, and true friends won’ t touch his hurts easily, which needs our prudent observations. This behavior is quite different from catering to others’ pleasure, which is to build a friendly atmosphere for your friends to make him continually talk with you.

There is a famous case in the history of interview around the whole world.

After Vivien Leigh won eleven Oscar nominations of her movie Gone with The Wind, she shot to fame overnight. When she went to Europe for tour because of this famous movie first time, thousands of journalists were waiting for her when the plane landed.

A stupid and innocent journalist ran in the very front, and he asked Vivien Leigh passionately: “What role do you play in the movie?” His words made Vivien Leigh turned back to the flight and never came out afterwards.

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