问答题

有人说,幸福就是一种感觉。这话没错。在农耕社会,风调雨顺、庄稼丰收是幸福的,再加上人丁兴盛、六畜兴旺则更是幸福的;耕读传家之家族,有人金榜题名,整个家族的人是幸福的,荣耀地幸福着。而在如今这物质主义泛滥的年代,每个人都在追逐着名和利,倘若突然一问:你幸福吗?相信很多人都会回不过神来。因为,过多的压力已经销蚀了我们的幸福感。无怪乎央视在《你幸福吗》栏目调查中,会有如务工人员一样“我姓曾”的回答,更有如莫言一样“我不知道”的回答——不管是务工人员,还是莫言,都有各自所面临的压力。

不让压力销蚀我们的幸福感,一方面需要我们的政府努力营造公平正义的环境,不断健全保障体系,提高个人抵御各类风险的能力,切实解决社会贫富差距过大的问题,防止出现公众集体焦虑心态。另一方面,也需要我们每个人都能努力改变看问题的角度,多从积极的方面认识问题,以积极的心态来考虑问题,及时舒缓不良情绪,建立健康的生活心态,平衡好“期望值”与“现实值”的关系,淡泊明志,回归理性,以更加平和的心态对待生活,如此,我们才能静心感悟幸福,才能真正拥有幸福。

【正确答案】

Some say happiness is but a feeling, and nothing could be truer. In a bygone agricultural society, favorable weather and bumper harvests would bring happiness to a whole community, and a feeling of being doubly blessed would prevail if there was also a baby boom accompanied by thriving livestock populations. For a clan that valued farming and letters, all its members would be feeling on top of the world if one of them was successful in an imperial exam. However, in today’ s materialistic world where everyone seems to be in a hot pursuit of fame and wealth, people would be at a loss if asked “Are you happy?” Indeed, too much stress has eroded our sense of happiness. No wonder when some migrant workers were asked if they were happy in a CCTV happiness survey, their answer was “I don’ t know” , just like that of Mo Yan, a famed writer. After all, migrant works and folks like Mo Yan are all experiencing stress, albeit in different ways.

To prevent stress from eroding our sense of happiness, the government for its part has to make constant efforts to build a fair and just social framework and a viable safety net for all, so as to enhance the ability of individuals to withstand risks and shocks, and take effective measures to narrow the gap between rich and poor, so as to prevent the emergence of collective anxiety among the general public. On the other hand, we as individuals should try to look at things from a different perspective, with fewer attitudes and more gratitude. It pays to free ourselves from the grips of grievances, and harness the power of positive thinking, always aiming for a right balance between expectations and reality, a departure from blind materialistic pursuit towards a more fulfilling self-reinvention, and a return to reason. Only by embracing more equanimity, can we be blessed with happiness, and truly feel blissful.

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