填空题Parents should bring up their children to be generous, not ______ (self).
填空题Since childhood, most of us have been bombarded with roles—don't be selfish, don't complain, don't be unreasonable, don't interrupt, etc. 41) __________Do you wish you could learn to deal with minor irritations before anger festers into intense resentment and explosive aggression? Assertiveness training can reduce stress by teaching you to stand up for your legitimate rights without bullying or being bullied. Step one is realizing that changes are needed. Then you must take action to make those changes a reality. Assertiveness training might be offered through your employer, your university or a private consultant. It might even be offered through distance learning on the Internet. 42)__________. Such a workshop might include two workshop leaders for up to 18 participants in an all-day, six-hour event or two morning sessions one week apart, with "homework" being assigned between the two sessions. What kind of homework? Practicing what you have learned and describing the experience in a personal diary. 43) __________. Long breaks encourage free talk and generate enthusiasm among participants. It helps to know that others like yourself share your problems. At the beginning of the workshop, you may be asked to describe specific situations that you would like to handle better. During the workshop, you will hear lectures, see vignettes on DVD or video, and receive printed information on how to become more forthright. Role playing is an important element in assertiveness training. The workshop leader will present a scenario submitted by a workshop participant. 44) __________ Research has shown that an American man is much likelier to feel at ease asking for a higher starting salary than an American woman. A woman with the same qualifications being considered for the same position is commonly inclined to fret: "If I ask for a higher salary, maybe they won't hire me, "or" Maybe the company will think I don't have enough experience for such a high salary." 45) __________. The real-life situation can be thought of as a game; once that perception takes root, some of the stress and inhibition disappears. Meanwhile, the already more confident males in the workshop gain a better understanding of how the situation looks and feels for an inhibited job seeker. They acquire a bit of sympathy. And of course women aren't the only people who ever ask for a higher starting salary or a raise; the communication techniques tried out in assertiveness workshops can be used by anyone.A. Since assertiveness training arose in the US. the principles trainers try to instill would need to be adjusted for a non-Western culture. Yet many would doubtless be as much in place in China as they are in North America or Europe.B. But what if those "rules" have made you into a passive, unassertive, accommodating, compliant person when you would really prefer to speak up more about your true feelings and desires?C. The role playing session helps female workshop participants find out how it feels to ask for a higher salary. They see what the possible responses are, and the workshop participants pool their brains and experience to come up with useful tactics.D. A typical example might be a situation from a job interview: the employer is offering a certain salary but the prospective employee thinks it's too low. How to make it clear that you want a higher salary without sacrificing your chances of landing the job? The workshop leader will have small groups work out strategies. probably involving a female job seeker and a male employer.E. If you are highly motivated, you could read and learn about how to become more assertive independently. Probably the best way to build assertiveness is a good assertiveness training workshop.F. For example, North American trainees are urged to focus positively on goals, not g on the other person. You may not like the other person. You may, in fact, mistrust, despise or fear the other person, but he is the fellow you have to negotiate with.G. The workshop should take place in a hospitable atmosphere with plenty of room, a comfortable temperature and light refreshments during breaks.
填空题41)__________. In today's prosperous societies the distinction has become blurred because so many wants have been turned into needs. A writer, for instance, can work with paper and pencils. These are legitimate needs for the task. But the work can be done more quickly and efficiently with a word processor. Thus a computer is soon viewed as a need rather than a want. 42) __________. The two main categories are convenience goods and shopping goods. Two lesser types are specialty goods and unsought goods. It must be emphasized that all of these types are based on the way shoppers think about products, not on the nature of the products themselves. What is regarded as a convenience item in France(wine, for example)may be a specialty goods in the United States. People do not spend a great deal of time shopping for such convenience items as groceries, newspapers, toothpaste, razor blades, aspirin, and candy. The buying of convenience goods may be done routinely, as some families buy groceries once a week. Such regularly purchased items are called staples. Sometimes convenience products are bought on impulse: someone has a sudden desire for an ice cream sundae on a hot day. 43) __________. Shopping goods are items for which customers search. They compare prices, quality, and styles, and may visit a number of stores before making a decision. 44) __________. Shopping goods fall into two classes: those that are perceived as basically the same and those that are regarded as different. Items that are looked upon as basically the same include such things as home appliances, television sets, and automobiles. Having decided on the model desired, the customer is primarily interested in getting the item at the most favorable price. Items regarded as inherently different include clothing, furniture, and dishes. Quality, style, and fashion will either take precedence over price, or they will not matter at all. Specialty goods have characteristics that impel customers to make special efforts to find them. Price may be no consideration at all. Specialty goods can include almost any kind of product. Normally, specialty goods have a brand name or other distinguishing characteristics. Unsought goods are items a consumer does not necessarily want or need or may not even know about. Promotion or advertising brings such goods to the consumer's attention. 45) __________.[A] In the field of marketing, consumer goods are classed according to the way in which they are purchased.[B] Or they may be purchased as emergency items.[C] What it really does is give unprecedented insight into the consumer mind. And it will actually result in higher product sales.[D] The product could be something new on the market as the Sony Walkman once was or it may be a fairly standard service, such as life insurance, for which most people will usually not bother shopping.[E] Buying an automobile is often done this way.[F] The traditional distinction between products that satisfy needs and those that satisfy wants is no longer adequate to describe classes of products.[G] These proprietary annual surveys address shopping frequency, store preference, shopper profiles, purchase patterns and drivers of shopping behavior.
填空题We are quite ignorant of what has been achieved in this field.(nothing) ____________________.
填空题The ______ of the dinner party was disappointed at the small number of guests who attended. 晚宴的主人看到只有少数客人出席感觉很失望。
填空题A. Analyzing your own taste
B. Being cautious when experimenting
C. Finding a model to follow
D. Getting the final look absolutely right
E. Learning to be realistic
F. Making regular conscious choices
G. How to judge people
When we meet people for the first time, we often make decisions about them based entirely on how they look. And, of course it"s something that works both ways, for we too are being judged on our appearance. When we look good, we feel good, which in turn leads to a more confident and self-assured manner. People then pick up on this confidence and respond positively towards us. Undoubtedly, it"s what"s inside that"s important, but sometimes we can send out the wrong signals simply by wearing inappropriate clothing or not spending enough time thinking about how others see us.
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For example, people often make the mistake of trying to look like someone else they"ve seen in a magazine, but this is usually a disaster as we all have our own characteristics. Stand in front of a full-length mirror and be honest with yourself about what you see. There is no need to dwell on your faults—we all have good points and bad points—but think instead about the best way to emphasize the good ones.
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When selecting your clothes each day, think about who you"re likely to meet, when you"re going to be spending most of your time and what tasks you are likely to perform. Clearly, some outfits will be more appropriate to different sorts of activity and this will dictate your choice to an extent. However, there"s no need to abandon your individual taste completely. After all, if you dress to please somebody else"s idea of what looks good, you may end up feeling uncomfortable and not quite yourself.
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But to know your own mind, you have to get to know yourself. What do you truly feel good in? There are probably a few favorite items that you wear a lot—most people wear 20 percent of their wardrobe 80 percent of the time. Look at these clothes and ask yourself what they have in common. Are they neat and tidy, loose and flowing? Then look at the things hanging in your wardrobe that you don"t wear and ask yourself why. Go through a few magazines and catalogues and mark the things that catch your eye. Is there a common theme?
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Some colors bring your natural coloring to life and others can give us a washed-out appearance. Try out new colors by all means, but remember that dressing in bright color when you really like subtle neutral tones, or vice versa, will make you feel self-conscious and uncomfortable. You know deep down where your own taste boundaries lie. And although it"s good to challenge those sometimes with new combinations or shades, take care not to go too far all at once.
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So, you"ve chosen an outfit that matches your style, your personality, your shape and your coloring. But does it fit? If something is too tight or too loose, you won"t achieve the desired effect, and no matter what other qualities it has, it won"t improve your appearance or your confidence. Sometimes, we buy things without thinking. Some people who dislike shopping grab the first thing they see, or prefer to use mail-order or the Internet. In all cases, if it doesn"t fit perfectly, don"t buy it, because the finer details are just as important as the overall style.
Reappraising your image isn"t selfish because everyone who comes into contact with you will benefit. You"ll look better and you"ll feel a better person all round. And if in doubt, you only need to read Professor Albert Mehrabian"s book
Silent Messages
to remind yourself how important outward appearances are. His research showed that the impact we make on each other depend 55 percent on how we look and behave, 38 percent on how we speak and only 7 percent on what we actually say. So, whatever stage you are at in your life, whatever role you play, isn"t it time you made the most of yourself?
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B. By the way, is Dr. Johnson available on Saturday
C. I"d like to make an appointment to see the doctor
Clerk: Good morning. This is Doctor Johnson"s office. What can I do for you?
Mrs. Reed: Yes, this is Mrs. Reed.
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Clerk: Well, let"s see. I"m afraid he is fully booked on Monday and Tuesday.
Mrs. Reed:
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Clerk: Sorry, but I have to say he is also occupied on Thursday. So, will Wednesday be OK for you, Mrs. Reed?
Mrs. Reed: I have to work on Wednesday.
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Clerk: I"m afraid the office is closed on weekends.
Mrs. Reed: Well, what about Friday?
Clerk: Friday. Let me have a check. Oh, great. Dr. Johnson will be available on Friday afternoon this week.
Mrs. Reed: That"s fine. Thank you, I"ll come then.
填空题In accordance with the arrangement, we will visit the Summer Palace today.
填空题The doctor who performed the ______ gave Bob an 85 percent chance of full recovery by September. 负责给鲍勃做手术的医生说他到9月份完全痊愈的可能性是85/%。
填空题Please make sure the terms ______ the L/C are exactly the same as those ______ our contract so that there is no need for amendment, which is costly and time consuming.
填空题To their credit, many people who insist on P. C. usage believe that changing our language can eventually change our thinking and behavior—______ eliminating racism, sexism and all the other isms we deplore.
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填空题In spite of the dominant influences of Transformational Generative Grammar in the American linguistic scholarship, it has been challenged by a number of rebels, among whom, are Fillmore with his ______and other with Generative Semantics.
填空题The only effective means to reduce migration pressure over the long term are to slow population growth and promote the dev______ of the individual and the family as the basic economic unit.
填空题Both of Mrs.Watsons daughters ______ their studies abroad now, one in Germany and the other in China. 华特森太太的两个女儿都在国外求学,一个在德国,一个在中国。
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填空题A.everything is wrong B.Do you agree C.let’s total the score D.let’s do it E.we can do it F.Here is the answer sheet G.Here is your score H.the percentage is incorrect Student:Excuse me,Professor.I think there might be an error in my test score. Professor:Sure.Do you think that the total is wrong or that you got something marked wrong that should have been marked right? Student:I think that (56) . Professor:Let’s just go over all of it to double-check. Student:Sure, (57) . Professor: (58) .Do you see a place where I marked something wrong that should have been right? Student:I don’t see any mistakes. Professor:OK,now that we’ve gotten those straightened out, (59) . Student:Yes,let’s total it. Professor:Well,if J total that like this and divide by this number,I get this total. (60) ? Student:Yes,you’re right. Professor:Well then,we are all straight.Have a good day and thanks for bringing that to my attention.
