问答题接读朋友的来信,尤其是远自海外犹带着异国风云的航空信,确是人生一大快事,如果无须回信的话。回信,是读信之乐的一大代价。久不回信,屡不回信,接信之乐必然就相对减少,以致于无,这时,友情便暂告中断了,直到有一天在赎罪的心情下,你毅然回起信来。蹉跎了这么久,接信之乐早变成欠信之苦,我便是这么一位屡犯的罪人,交游千百,几乎每一位朋友都数得出我的前科来的。英国诗人奥登曾说,他常常搁下重要的信件不回,躲在家里看他的侦探小说。王尔德有一次对韩黎说:“我认得不少人,满怀光明的远景来到伦敦,但是几个月后就整个崩溃了,因为他们有回信的习惯。”显然王尔德认为,要过好日子,就得戒除回信的恶习。可见怕回信的人,原不止我一个。
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问答题The Rewards of Living a Solitary Life【】Loneliness is most acutely felt with other people, for with others, even with a lover sometimes, we suffer from our differences of taste, temperament, and mood. Human intercourse often demands that we soften the edge of perception, or withdraw at the very instant of personal truth for fear of hurting, or of being inappropriately present, which is to say naked, in a social situation. Alone, we can afford to be wholly whatever we are, and to feel whatever we feel absolutely. That is a great luxury.【】For me, the most interesting thing about a solitary life, and mine has been that for the last 20 years, is that it becomes increasingly rewarding. When I can wake up and watch the sun rise over the ocean, as I do most days, and know that I have an entire day ahead, uninterrupted, in which to write a few pages, take a walk with my dog, lie down in the afternoon for a long think (why does one think better in a horizontal position?), read and listen to music, I am flooded with happiness.【】I am lonely only when I am overtired, when I have worked too long without a break, when for the time being I feel empty and need filling up. And I am lonely sometimes when I come back home after a leisure trip, when I have seen a lot of people and talked a lot, and am full to the brim with experience that needs to be sorted out.【】Then for a little while the house feels huge and empty, and I wonder where my self is hiding. It has to be recaptured slowly by watering the plants, perhaps, and looking again at each one as though it were a person, by feeding the two cats, by cooking a meal.
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